唉，球也打不下去了，收桿小酌去。
「浣溪沙」～晏殊
一曲新詞酒一杯，
去年天氣舊亭臺，
夕陽西下幾時回？
無可奈何花落去，
似曾相似燕歸來，
小園香徑獨徘徊。
坐在上次大家一起喝酒聽歌的球會酒吧裡，一樣的美酒清歌，卻已逝者如斯，時序移轉，再也回不來了，有誰見過以前西下的夕陽，曾經回來過呢？
2012年8月25日 星期六
浣溪沙
人到中年開始面對死別，那天去打球，才知道兩個月前和我同場一較高低的波友，一個月前黃昏放狗時暈倒，送院後証實不治。這個不煙不嫖不賭不色不毒每年定時詳細檢查身體的大學教授，未滿五十歲，就這樣走了。
唉，球也打不下去了，收桿小酌去。
「浣溪沙」～晏殊
一曲新詞酒一杯，
去年天氣舊亭臺，
夕陽西下幾時回？
無可奈何花落去，
似曾相似燕歸來，
小園香徑獨徘徊。
坐在上次大家一起喝酒聽歌的球會酒吧裡，一樣的美酒清歌，卻已逝者如斯，時序移轉，再也回不來了，有誰見過以前西下的夕陽，曾經回來過呢？
唉，球也打不下去了，收桿小酌去。
「浣溪沙」～晏殊
一曲新詞酒一杯，
去年天氣舊亭臺，
夕陽西下幾時回？
無可奈何花落去，
似曾相似燕歸來，
小園香徑獨徘徊。
坐在上次大家一起喝酒聽歌的球會酒吧裡，一樣的美酒清歌，卻已逝者如斯，時序移轉，再也回不來了，有誰見過以前西下的夕陽，曾經回來過呢？
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人到中年開始面對死別，那種感覺挺不好受！我也有位朋友，幾年前在我離港前還在他家促膝詳談，言笑晏晏；但今年回港他早已騎鶴西去，只剩下孤兒寡婦，前些時去拜祭他，始終接受不到人天永隔的事實，望著他的遺照，而腦海內卻滿是舊日的時光，Hana，本想勸你節哀順變，看開一些，但自問亦難以放下，不禁想起珍惜眼前人這句說話。
回覆刪除多謝！其實我對生死睇得比較淡，可能因為我有死過番生的經歷。係有啲稀虛遮。
刪除I think we are getting closer to death (actually since we were born), better seize and enjoy the present moment.
回覆刪除First time I felt that death could be so close was 12 years ago when one of my secondary school classmates (she was a doctor) committed suicide (depression).
Since then I attended more and more funerals than wedding.
自殺的人通常都好自我唔太考慮親人感受。好似我呢種責任感大過自我感受的人天跌落來都只會當被蓋，注定捱世界。
刪除從言談中, 我也思疑我上司的老婆曾經試過自殺, 也看得出她有一定程度的depression, 倒是搞不清楚當中的因果關係, 倒底是她受了委屈還是上司受了委屈?
回覆刪除匿名者, 可以講你是2000年嘗試自殺的嗎? 你是什麼時候發覺自己有抑鬱的?
回覆刪除有些當年的感覺又好像回來了
回覆刪除但我最近正努力忘記那些曾發生的事情和感覺
如果自己處理不到就趕緊看醫生吧！病向淺中醫！保重！！
刪除我近這一年經歷很多，從最親的先父丶親戚長輩丶父母的朋友丶還有好友的父母，經歷更多，又成長了，一字記之曰“化”，活在當下吧！
回覆刪除同一輩人的離開令我更化，唯有對己對人好啲再好啲，
刪除唉！其實，我按完“發佈”之後，都想到同輩，過去呢一年，我有三個舊公司同事去世，又有一個住在美國的好友重風，除了活在當下，真係要珍惜眼前人！
刪除Hi, 匿名, Not sure if your question is for me or not.
回覆刪除I did not commit suicide.
It is one of my classmates in secondary school. She was a doctor and committed suicide because of depression few years after graduation.
As she was of similar age with me and she was my friend, I felt shocked after knowing her death at age of about 30. I thought we were relative young and had no idea about death until her death.
Her funeral was the first one I attended for people of my generation. My feeling is that death is not only for old people but young people may die of various reasons.
This is why I said death could be close to me/us.
By the way, depression is quite common even for the rich people. They should seek help from professionals!
我只是猜想, 上司的老婆整日愁眉苦臉的, 令我產生了聯想.她幾十年來都沒有進修過, 也沒有工作, 近年當了義工, 幫的機構是撒瑪利亞防止自殺會, 而且修讀了它的聆聽證書課程, 給我一種自助助人的感覺. 另, 她的面相並不好, 眼睛露四白, 給人兇惡的印象. 她叫當高官的老公去當保安, 似乎是一種出於怨恨的誨氣說話, 又或, 她自己都不願意跟剛退休的老公終日相對.
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