2007年10月11日 星期四

遇見100%的愛

導師推介我看遇見100%的愛,趁着出差舟車的時間看了,居然看得津津有味。
很喜歡作者對這個課題的演譯,為甚麼討厭自己也會礙阻愛情? 我最喜歡叫別人想一下:「你願意跟自己交朋友嗎? 為甚麼?」如果連你自己都不喜歡和自己交往,你憑甚麼希望別人愛你? 我們常犯一個大錯誤,就是希望透過別人的愛讓我們感受到「被愛」。可是,我們搞錯的是,當你不愛自己,也就是覺得自己不值得愛呀,無論別人對你做些甚麼,你只會覺得不足夠、未夠好,因為你體內是空虛的。當你覺得自己不夠好的時候,隨之而來的憂慮就是: 「他/她愛不愛我?」。

7 則留言:

  1. Yes, self confidence shall be in the first place prior to meeting people.
    Anyway, thanks for sharing ;)

    Rick
    SearchMyGirl.BlogSpot.Com

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  2. Dear Hana,
    Of course, I have to be polite when I express my idea to a lady (I mean beautiful lady, not pork chop and/or dinosaur). This was my privilege to have you replied my previous comment. Furthermore, thank you again for good blogging.

    Rick

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  4. You talk heavy!
    Judging people solely by their appearance is wrong.
    Pork chop will also have kind heart.
    Anyway,Welcome you to my blog.

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  5. Dear Hana,

    You are quite right about "Judging people solely by their appearance is wrong.
    Pork chop will also have kind heart.". However, this virtue is required lots of time to explore/to be discovered. I don't think any decent man will go deep enough to find out when they see a tasty Texas grilled pork chop.
    ;)

    Rick

    P.S. Hana, you have a good heart with a good face :)

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  6. Dear R
    You are also right.
    What you say is the man's truth. What I say is the woman's truth.

    PS:thanks

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